• Sex and Sensability: Dating Mr. Darcy

    I`m smart. And smart girls still believe in love and chivalry. And if my foundation is love and chivalry, it`s really not that hard to comprehend that I would want to meet and ultimately love and be loved by someone who believes in the same thing (Take note: Nowhere do I say the words Marriage and children as a natural conclusion. Partnership is the ultimate goal. I`m not convinced that marriage isn`t a bit overrated.) I am a huge fan of Jane Austin`s Pride and Prejudice and Sense and Sensibility. The heroines are strong, emotionally independent and feisty women. The men are gallant, chivalrous and principled. My favourite of these…

  • Stinky Boys

    Why is it that Boys only like you when you pretend you don’t like them back? And why is it that they say they don’t like you until there’s somebody else that likes you and then suddenly they like you? And why is it that they can’t say how they feel? And how is it that they when they get what they want, they don’t want it anymore? My mom always said: what are little girls made of? Sugar and Spice and all things niceand what are little boys made of: Rats and Snails and puppy-dog tails. *sniff* My mom’s a wise woman….

  • The Agony and the Ecstacy

    The male brain… shuts down at the point of climax. Incapable of thinking or speaking coherently after that point, men generally want nothing to do with sex and will either jump out of bed to wash the car/dog/themselves or turn around, mumble something vaguely endearing (if he`s not a total bastard) and fall asleep. Or so says the Cosmopolitan (June Edition). I`m not a huge fan of the Cosmo and even in this instance I have to disagree. In fact, the above pretty much could have described me. So, as everything shuts down after sex…it stands to reason that all the really interesting bits happen before sex. And it all…